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:	post by Sukotto at 2012-08-07 09:45:52

Basically my ex said a month ago that she didn't feel the same way any more. I found out 2 weeks after we split up that she had been chatting to this guy she'd met on holiday in September, well its now been 6 weeks since she came back her holiday and 4 weeks since we split up.

I was gutted at first and done everything I could to try and reconcile, we went away 2 weeks ago to a show and stayed overnight at a hotel, this is when I found out about this other guy. Well after that we didn't talk for a week, she tried to ask how I was on MSN but was ignored. We started talking again and its still wierd, we made an arrangement to go to the cinema but thats been cancelled due to university work.

I'd like to say things HAVE got better, over time I've realised that I treated her well throughout the relationship and even after the breakup. I dont think about her as much, when I start thinking about her I just tell myself "No" and start thinking about other stuff. Then when I get home at night I let myself have a few minutes to think about her. It seems to be a good way to deal with it.

So what have I done in 4 weeks?
Gym 4 times a week = Lost 20lbs
Worked more = 60 hours overtime

Started looking at a flat too.

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